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As many of you know, I spent the past summer researching grownup giftedness. I have learned so much that I want to share that I've almost felt paralyzed! Where to begin? Well, as Maria from The Sound of Musicwould say, "let's start at the very beginning, a very good place to start." (I'm very much about the wisdom of The Sound of Music!) The beginning seems to be in identifying what makes a grownup gifted. And boy howdy, do I have a list of gifted grownup characteristics for you!

Before I begin my ginormous list, I'll summarize by saying that giftedness is not about a number on an intelligence test. While high intelligence can be part of giftedness, giftedness is much more about a profile of traits. If you exhibit at least two-thirds of the characteristics below, you can probably consider yourself gifted.

Also, I want you to know that I did my best to cull through the traits and winnow them down so I didn't repeat myself. However, in a typically gifted, divergent-thinking way, at times I found that one resource would present a trait in a differently-nuanced way than another. In these cases, I did what I could to consolidate the characteristic, but I also may have just repeated myself. It was the only way I could avoid the self-torture which would have resulted from potentially omitting information you might find helpful!

So, without further ado, I give you my ginormous list of gifted grownup traits:

• early and heightened concern for justice and morality
• early verbal ability
• enjoyment of intense intellectual discussions with others and with themselves
• complex thought processes
• capacity for abstract thought, which as it increases so does the connection of emotional reactions to cognitive appraisals of situations
• internal asynchrony (out-of-sync-ness): experiencing different levels of development among physical, intellectual, emotional, social, and skill set areas of self
• external asynchrony: lack of fit with same-aged people and with age-related expectations of culture
• immense capacity to care
• assimilation of extraordinary amounts of information
• unusual retentiveness (and I'm not talking anal here, though that can sometimes apply too!)
• advanced comprehension
• unusually varied interests
• insatiable curiosity
• unusual capacity for processing information
• accelerated pace of thought processes
• heightened capacity for seeing unusual and diverse relationships
• ability to generate original ideas and solutions
• evaluation of self and others
• persistent, goal-directed behavior
• heightened emotional sensitivity and intensity (these are evident in a gifted child and may go underground in adults, especially in males, but will still exist)
• heightened sensitivity to visual, auditory, tactile, olfactory, and taste sensations
• keen sense of humor (may be gentle, hostile, sophisticated, and/or bizarre)
• desire to make actions consistent with values
• sophisticated, global thinking
• capacity to generalize
• understanding of difficult concepts and phenomena
• uncommon imagination and creativity
• view of self can be fundamentally different than the view others have of them (gifted people are sometimes endowed by others with more power and ability than they actually possess)
• driven, not by what drives the rest of the world but by inner agenda
• sometimes overwhelmed by the pressure of their own creativity
• greater awareness of what's going on in the world, therefore feeling things more deeply
• relating best to those who share their interests
• don't have many relationships, but the ones they do have are deep and meaningful
• leadership ability
• need for solitude and time for contemplation and daydreaming
• search for meaning in both the inner and outer world
• highly intuitive, gaining insights without being aware of the logical sequence to their conclusion
• special problem awareness, therefore can predict consequences and possibly prevent foreseeable problems; but can also experience more anxiety
• ability to see patterns of development and growth, and therefore can recognize, predict, and influence trends, although they may not be trendsetters because others won't be convinced of their way of thinking
• dislike of public relations methods of image making
• perfectionistic, in terms of own standards and expectations (not necessarily in terms of the outside world)
• multiple abilities and interests, frequently to the point of feeling frustration at not being able to engage all of themselves at any one point in time
• frequent feelings of being misunderstood, of being an outsider, of being unable to communicate
• difficulty understanding the seemingly inconsistent and short-sighted behavior of others
• ability to see a difference between justice and equality
• potential development of emotional issues related to their abilities, but also possession of greater resources for dealing with their problems
• independent thinking
• difficulty with authority figures, including knowingly or unknowingly being threatening to them
• desire to use specific talents, insights, and knowledge for betterment of the world
• ability to process information in several directions at once
• love for self-actualization
• divergent thinking ability
• high potential to be wide open to life and fully present in the moment
• love of challenge
• ability to feel great joy in the unfolding journey--goals and means are one and the same
• balance between discipline and spontaneity
• as they become more successful, development and use of a support system that fuels their creativity
• persistent
• ability to complete tasks more quickly than others
• tendency to "use up" jobs
• sensitivity to beauty and pain
• empathy
• perceptivity
• no fear of being regarding as oddball or weird person
• playfulness
• more insight than others
• need for challenging work
• resistance to routines
• low frustration tolerance
• reluctance to accept criticism
• holding unrealistic expectations of self
• being one's worst critic
• ability to see many sides to an issue
• enjoyment of debate
• fountain of ideas
• love for puzzles, mazes, paradoxes, complex ideas, and words, including word play
• feeling of responsibility for problems that don't belong to them
• been criticized for not sticking to one thing ("flakiness")
• value for honesty, integrity, and authenticity
• connections with people of all ages
• capacity for keen observation
• extraordinary tolerance for ambiguity
• excitability, enthusiasm, and expressiveness
• abundant energy
• early spiritual experiences
• deep concern about universal issues and nature
• reverence for the interconnectedness of all things
• awareness of an inner force that draws them toward meaning, fulfillment, and excellence
• feelings of urgency about personal destiny
• yearning at a spiritual level for answers to existential puzzles
• passionate, intense feelings
• inability to switch off thinking
• search for questions in their lives
• a feeling of coming apart
• preference for complexity
• overwhelmed by pressure of one's own intellectual, creative, or emotional intensity
• just seems more complicated than others